Happyday009

Looking for a serious relationship

I am a	woman
From	Auckland, New Zealand
Age	35 y.o.
Height	5'4" - 5'7" (161-170cm)
Body type	Average
Ethnicity	Mixed
Children	No
Want children	I will tell you later
Education	Some college
Speak	English
Smoker	No
Drinker	Rarely
I look for a	man, 40-58, for marriage, relationship

Happyday009

More about me:

I'm so simple that I'm complex. My mind dances around simple, easy to grasp concepts and subconsciously craves unneeded complexity in things. Anything, actually. I have trouble with math because of that - the fact that I have a hard time comprehending answers when they're black and white. I always look for the shades of grey.

I apply the quote "it's not the lines but the spaces in between" to everything, even subconsciously. I love to think, and I tend to analyze everything, and analyze it to the extent of something simple not making any sense.

I need things to be intellectually stimulating, or they bore me. I'm a bit misconceived, and in short, I'm proud to be who I am. I learn without studying, and know without learning. Start a conversation with me on ANY topic, other than current events, and I'll be able to follow quite well, maybe even debate. To be honest, intellect, in general, is my niche.

I'm a bit paradoxical, too. Sometimes, I may seem completely detached and uninterested, but I am almost always secretly fascinated to the point of obsession. There are things that fascinate me that I'm not even aware of. I don't pay attention to detail as much as I look at everything as whole, then I proceed to analyze every detail in attempts to understand everything about something. I don't believe that what we see as understanding is complete. In fact, I don't believe it even comes close. There's always a how or why, and I am determined to find it, and maybe even press that issue. My defense mechanism against being dominated is questioning. Questioning and challenging. I don't even value my own beliefs if they don't survive challenges, and I, myself, will do the challenging.

About my ideal partner:

I like a man who is clean shaven, with his hair cut short. (goatees or mustaches are acceptable... no beards).Must be funny, have a good sense of humor and be attractive, must be a caring individual, who is a non-player/ playboy mate, who is serious about the relationship, must be well groomed, and dress appropriately for all occasions, and I am not just talking about his looks.. hmmmm! (He must also smell nice).trustworthy, faithful, honest, loving,kindhearted,giving,peaceful,smart... devoted, hard working